Chafed vs. Chaffed vs. Chapped (Grammar Rules)
For today’s post, let’s look at a few words that I see used interchangeably online: chafed, chaffed, and chapped. These three verbs describe three different actions: one related to opening small cracks, one related to irritation, and the other related to good-natured ribbing. So let’s take a look at when to use each.
Chafed vs. Chaffed vs. Chapped
Chafed is the past tense verb of chafe, which can describe being irritated, worn away, or warmed by rubbing together (like having chafed legs when running). The chafing action often comes from one thing (for instance, a super strong and cold wind) rubbing or wearing against another thing (like bared skin).
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Chaffed is the past tense verb of chaff, which describes the action of teasing another person, usually in a good-natured way (as opposed to bullying). So a person who chaffs another person might be joking around about wearing a winter coat on a hot summer day or wearing their sunglasses at night.
Chapped is the past tense verb of chap, which describes the action of opening in small cracks and slits. Often, people use this as a word to describe their chapped lips, which is why so many people buy chapstick.
Here are a few examples of chafed vs. chaffed vs. chapped:
Correct: He chafed the bottom of his feet from spending too much time in the pool.
Incorrect: He chaffed the bottom of his feet from spending too much time in the pool.
Probably Incorrect: He chapped the bottom of his feet from spending too much time in the pool.
Correct: She chaffed her date about forgetting her name throughout dinner.
Incorrect: She chafed her date about forgetting her name throughout dinner.
Incorrect: She chapped her date about forgetting her name throughout dinner.
Correct: He complained about his lips, which were chapped from the dry air.
Incorrect: He complained about his lips, which were chafed from the dry air.
Incorrect: He complained about his lips, which were chaffed from the dry air.
There may be a few other examples, but I can think of at least one where chafed and chapped could be used interchangeably. That’s if you were to describe lips (or other skin) chafed (or chapped) by strong winds. I believe it would be appropriate to use either to describe this situation.
So let’s untangle this: Chafed with one “f” refers to the act of irritation through friction; chaffed with two “f”s refers to good-natured taunting; and chapped probably just requires a bit of chapstick.
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